So much to say, but most of it has been said in the 365 days since Tim's accident. Most importantly, he's emerged as a mature young man on his way to complete independence, one way or another. The physical improvements continue weekly and he keeps taking new steps in creating a life for himself, away from home. This past week Tim visited Bunker Hill Community College to sign up for a class so that he can begin to get back in that swing of things. He's thinking about a part time job and an apartment, too. Sox games are now old hat - the last one attended with Jancy as part of her return grand tour.
Ah, yes - Jancy. She returned from her semester in Ghana on June 28. We took a bunch of video and I was waiting for Tim to edit and post on YouTube - but that hasn't happened yet. It was a great day, very emotional. Amy, Tim and I were joined by Jancy's BFF Deleah and headed to JFK, where we welcomed her back with many hugs, smiles and a few tears. She looks great and had a surprise or two for us. Two weeks later, I'm still trying to get some private time with her to learn more about her experience, but I'm guessing that will be revealed incrementally over time.
Her re-entry into the western world started with satisfying some junk food cravings. Cuzzes Hannah and Caitlyn reserved a table for all of us at a Brooklyn pizzeria for lunch. After some time wandering around Park Slope, we headed home and enjoyed cheeseburgers, fries and shakes on the way at the Red Rooster in Brewster, NY. Sunday evening was spent over dinner with family at the Orient Express in WS for Vietnamese fried rice, Happy Pancake, spring rolls etc. After that, it was off to the races for the girl, re-establishing friendships and getting the lay of the land. She was back to work at the RLI by July 7 and our non-empty nest lives are settling in.
Last night, July 12 - we all celebrated Lou's 60th birthday in Richmond. A great party, and a great way for Tim to catch up with family and community. We're all looking forward to seeing what the next 12 months will bring.
Sunday, July 13, 2008
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