A few more photos

I am getting the knack for this, so here go a few more. The first two are from Chris's and my visit to Boston.

Love to you again,
Phoebe

Tim on the go

Here are some photos from Tim's visit to West Stockbridge. It was so great to see you out here, Tim. Everyone was inspired by how much progress you have made and by your enormous courage. As well as just by who you are and how much fun you are. I hope my pictures come through okay.

Lots of love to you, Tim, from your Aunt Phoebe and from all of us in West Stockbridge.

Make Way for Duck Tours

Locomat. Bioness. Manual Chair all day long. Class on pressure management (what?). Blah Blah Blah.

At 6:30, Tim joined Amy and a bunch of adults and kids from Bourne, Holliston, Milton and Medfield for a 3 hour tour, a 3 hour tour. Actually 2.5. These folks are pals of Amy's and mine from back in the "day," when were the toast of Newbury Street. They're great friends and have made Tim a part of their lives as good friends do. Amy said that it was a blast - good company, funny driver, the time flew by. And now, there are 28 more "I love Tim Buttteworth" bands in circulation. Thanks guys. Tomorrow, I'll get Tim's comments and post them with some images that Amy will bring home with her.

On my end, Conorooman stopped by to pick up Tim's new voice activated Mac with some special hardware to enable him to get himself connected to the world without using Amy and me as a go between. Conor is off to the Band Camp of a lifetime tomorrow, as a member of the Boston College marching band. Tommy Lee has nothing on Conor. Thanks O'Malley's for making the delivery

In closing, I've located the images from Sunday's homecoming, and should receive them on a disc tomorrow or Thursday and will post then.

The Tone is ready to Blog!

Hi Tim

I hope you had a great home coming. We wanna see more pictures! Your car looks pretty comfortable. We're just writing to let you know that your Uncle Tony is ready to blog! I've shown him how to do it and now I have to demonstrate to him how to add a photo. Here is a photo of the boys blackberry picking on the heath. That was about the only day it wasn't raining this summer. Tony has been poking through Schott's Almanac and has come up with some interesting facts: did you know that in the year you were born Teenage Mutant Turtles were the Toy of the Year? When you were ten years old it was Furbys then Teksta (whatever that is - shows you how old I am). Upon reading further, we've discovered that there really are Labradoodles in this world which were first bred in Australia (but not recognised by the English Kennel Club, certainly not!) as assistance dogs for people with severe allergies since their coats do not moult. Not to be outdone, the Americans are now breeding the Goldendoodle. As your young cousin Allott would say: fun-knee.

We're coming to see you soon and just can't wait! Meantime we are all sending you lots and lots of love on yet another dark and rainy day at the height of summer in Engerland. (Did you know it's so cold and rainy that the UK news presenters are wearing woolen winter coats with the collars up when they stand outside to report? It's surreal. Uggh)

Tim!!! I am so absolutely gutted that I didn't get to see you yesterday. I'm in Ohio already and missed you by a day, which was upsetting but Alena and Elyse both said you look great and seem to be doing well, so that was good news. Im writing this from a mac which I have no idea how to navigate and I know you would be making snide comments if you saw my technique, hahah. Anyway I hope you're doing really well and you have come so far...It has been amazing to hear of your progress and I only wish I could have been there to see you but next time man. Good luck, keep owning and stay strong..Jess

PS I want a bracelet!

Richmond Experiences Temporary Population Dip

The sad thing is, yesterday really kicked my butt. So, I slept in a bit to try to head off a cold I felt coming on, and I think I was successful. Amy pulled the early shift with Tim and after he went off to his 9AM PT classes, she came back to the apartment to make sure I didn't over-do the sleep. Thanks.

Anyway, by the time we ambled back to the hospital, who did we see arriving, but the catering Baldwins of Richmond, returning from their vacation in Little Compton. As always, we had a nice visit with them, over lunch on the patio (which they brought in from a specialty foods caterer in Providence). Nigel met Tim's therapists, enjoyed the draw bridge and helped Tim by filling his CamelBak. Tessa was just as cute as a button. She's this big (!) now.

Tim, it seems, was also pretty tired as he nodded off for a nap during the visit and then was too tired to attend his OT session. Rachel did let us know that she was excited by the new movement in Tim's left hand.

After Spinal Cord Injury Education Class, we enjoyed another visit from Richmonders. Stefan and Matt were in town to take a look at some colleges and stopped by before heading back. We let Tim have some time alone with them, and that resulted in a real smile fest. Amy and I enjoyed our time with Regina. I took off around 6, and learned that Tim was ready for bed early. Now, I'm back at my kitchen table in front of an open window. Has anyone seen August? Good lord!

The Missing Will Be Accounted For --

It was great seeing you today, but once again you put me on the spot. Now I'm going to have to confront those technological advances to meet your demands. You said "Next time I see a Foose It better be Jake". Well with him already out in Colorado I'm going to have to get a movie clip for you for that to happen. So I pulled out my super 8 movie camera(circa 1964) and go to the Film store. They told me to go the Washington DC and see the curator of the Smithsonian museum. I'm, pretty sure I heard them laughing when I left, (I never hear that when I leave - it is usually just a sigh - or "at last" - now laughing - that would be rude!!) Next step -Learn how to take a film clip with my digital camera. Well I'm posting on your blog sooooo- maybe I can pull this film clip stuff off??? We will be out in Colorado to get Jake settled in, in 2 days. He actually flew out a week ago for his first class. While out there I'll 'Get The Goods' and you will see Jake Foose - Video Clip to follow!!! (This Old Dog, New Trick Thing - is starting to become Old Hat - by the way at my age we try to avoid the word ooo l d).

All Joking aside - Great Seeing you and how Great You are doing. We will be back to you with the clip.

Steve F

Go, Tim!

Hi Tim,
It was great to see you today and witness firsthand your amazing progress and spirit! I was especially impressed by your command of that manual chair...I know that is no easy task. You are loved by many people and we are rooting for you. Jake would have been there today if he could have. I do know he will be calling on you for your many talents...he has always said, "Tim and me, we make a great team because I can come up with these crazy ideas and Tim can make them work!" You're in our hearts, Tim. Keep up the good work. Jan

Home Sweet Home

I'm keeping my blog post today short and sweet, and let others make their own posts to cover the day.

We got to Spaulding at 7:30, and were on the road by 8:30 or so. An uneventful ride got us home before 11, and Tim was able to go into the house through the front door and out the back (that was a tight fit) to spend some time with Sambone before we headed down the the club.

What a day it was! Thanks to everyone who made it down there and thanks to those who sent messages instead.

Three Short Hours

Man, that flew by. We got to Spaulding around 5:15 and left by 8:30 so we could get a good night sleep and be rested for Sunday. Lots happened. First, Tim is test driving a demo unit of the power chair he is leaning towards - the Quantum. It's a fine machine, no doubt. And check out that console.

We cruised down to the cafeteria where Tim enjoyed a nice meal We went through the cards and packages that had come in to Spaulding and that we had brought from home. Nice cards from Aunt Donna and a prayer group from St. Andrews Church in Madison, CT (can someone help us out with this one?). Tom, a board member from Berkshire South who doesn't (yet) know Tim (who's a lifeguard there) sent a thoughtful note and gift. Pastor (and friend) Belle sent two wicked cool tees - one Audi and one Mini (that's her ride), along with a beautiful cross that he can keep close and a nice message. We enjoyed the Eagle column on the Zucchini Festival and an email from the Good Samaritan (he'll miss you tomorrow, too).

About that time, John arrived with JP and yet more goodies for Tim from Patagonia. Tim's going out in style the next time. John was anxious to show us Tim's new trick! He can play fetch with Noir, so out to the patio we went. Because he has strength in his biceps, he can throw the ball over his head, backward. Fetch, Noir, Fetch!

Then it was upstairs for a shave, which took quite a bit of patience on my part - like hacking through the weeds in Shaker Mill Pond:

Afer that, we took a look at the new manual chair, learned how to break it down and enjoyed a game together of family trivia. Then off to bed for all of us. See you at noon!

slow but steady

Hey Tim, I think I finally made it onto the blog...won't know for sure until I close out of here. We have however been reading about your progess every day.Its really exciting that you will be home tomorrow. We look forward to seeing you. What is your favorite food? That's what we'll bring! LOL. Barbara and family

Audi Inspiration - #2

Advanced Technology: freedom to pursue the impossible.
In every field of human endeavor, there are leaders and there are followers. Audi is, and always has been, a leader. With an abiding belief that if it can be made by man, it can always be made better by man. And therefore better for all mankind.

** This is a direct quote taken from Tim's new book on the history and philosophy of Audi.

Freewheelin' Friday

Tim spent most of the day in a manual chair, but by 6PM had to give it up due to a sore neck. I'd say that's pretty good, though. We spoke to Tim while he was enjoying a late summer evening outside with John & JP and Noir, of course. Thirty minutes on the Locomat was the highlight of the day, and Tim feels like everything is starting to pay off - more muscle control in his left leg and his right thumb feels stronger. The newest bit of news (to me, anyway) was that he can now roll his left ankle inside and out.

He had a nice visit this morning from Matt and Tyler, on their way home from Maine. Several cards and notes from friends and family came in, including some scratch tickets from the Stevens, and cards from the Baldwin catering crew and the O'Malley's. He says there's more, but couldn't remember. We'll check it out tomorrow. I let him know about a couple of phone calls he got. Last night I had a nice chat with Nicholas, an old pal from Boy Scouts and Butternut. Today, Dr. Kantrowitz gave a ring to check in on Tim and was pleased to hear of the progress and let us know about an interesting new wheelchair technology he had heard of.

We said good night, looking forward to this weekend's big road trip. He sounds great, very positive - thanks to everyone for keeping in touch with Tim.

Manual Transmission

Thursday evening wrap up was three conversations - first with Grandma and Grandpa and then with the man, himself (and he is a man), and finally with Uncle John. Tim and Grandpa enjoyed lunch together today on that good ol' patio. I often reflect that another small blessing in all of this, is that Tim is able to do his rehab at a time of year when he can go outdoors and get some fresh air and a change of scenery. Doing something like this in January would require another level of committment and toughness for sure. Tim was in a manual wheelchair all day today, which was very tiring and required learning some new techniques. There's also no way to nap in one of these, so he was beat! He feels better about it, though, because it is more flexible - easier access to the elevator for instance. It's what he'll be using when we come home, and that was another reason they had him doing it. John noted that Tim was energetic and seemed pretty comfortable getting around that way by the end of the day. My dad noted that Tim's manual dexterity had improved greatly (this is the benefit of a once-a-week observation - all the little things add up to one big change) and he was able to hold and drink from his Gatorade bottle. They had a nice conversation about the new community service project Grandpa's involved in down in Orleans. Spinal Cord Injury Education class today was about driving cars. Tim said he got several new resources to learn more, and that he will need to be re-licensed.

The folks from ATEC came by with an Apple MacBook with voice recognition software and he was able to work with that for awhile. The first thing that Tim wanted to purchase with the funds raised for him is a new laptop with technologies that will enable him to be connected through the Internet. So, that's on order and soon he'll be able to read and send emails and IM's and make his own posts to this blog. We'll of course let you know when that is live. Thank you so much to everyone who has contributed to the Butters Fund. He ended our conversation with "I'm pretty tuckered out. Did I just say 'tuckered out?' I wonder where that came from? I really must be tired."

A little side note - The Zucchini Festival was nicely reviewed in today's Eagle, catching at least one hipster off guard! Read on about a town with "a sense of community and hospitality" and "a population of high-quality neighbors who really know how to pull together a party." http://www.berkshireeagle.com/the413/ci_6629639

Mystery Revealed; Another Extremity Heard From

Another comment on things provided here on the homefront. For four weeks now, our lawn has been getting mowed and the edges trimmed. I love mowing the lawn, 45 mindless minutes of back and forth walking with the world shut out by the drone of the Briggs & Stratton. And, it's a little bit o' fitness, as well. But I tell you, at this stage in my life, it would be "One More Thing" to do. So, I've been grateful but not sure who to thank! It was finally revealed to me that Kelly, a wonderful woman from WS (who used to work with me at The RLI) brings her three children- Matthew, Nathan and Heather over here once a week with a mower and a weed whacker and they get the job done. Kelly says they do this willingly as part of their community service. She happened to be helping out at the Inn today, so I was able to thank her in person, and let her know how that gesture frees up time for me to spend with Tim or take care of business around the house. And then I come home and find Gail dead-heading and otherwise grooming our garden - and that's why it doesn't look like we're not around. Thanks!

So for those of you keeping track, you will recall that Wednesdays are Amy's return day. She was treated to a ride home by Phoebe who drove out to spend a few mintes with Tim and turn around. That was a nice alternate to her usual bus ride and saved almost two hours of travel time.

But that also means that my info comes in spurts. Tim had a bit of a rough night, getting sweats and then chills. that kept him a bit down today. Amy observed that he can move his left leg while lying down, so that's a sign of increased strength and control. He worked out on the Locomat and did some arm work. During OT, however he showed movement in his right thumb! Amy was doing her little jig thing, but Tim was just not himself, so it was not as jubilant a moment as some of the other significant events.

We checked in with Tim tonight after a delicious meal at Peter & Sarah's and he was in a much better mood. The Sox lost in an afternoon game, but so did the Yanks, and the lead is still 5. Someone's helping us put together "Recreational Therapy Session" at Fenway, and Tim is very pumped up about that. Will he let me join him? Not sure if Yankee fans are allowed on that road trip. We talked about some random things like the development of the Fox River Paper mill, and his car (is it ready to pick him up this weekend?). He reported a nice card and letter from former BCD teacher Mrs. Baer, and seemed pleased to hear that old friend Silvia had stopped by my office to let me know that she had heard about Tim and wanted to say goodbye to him before she moves to Chicago. He also had an interesting visit from Uncle John, who figured out that he could walk up the stairs with Noir and no one would give him a hard time. So, another session of NT tonight, on the 9th floor landing! Tim's looking forward to his weekly visit from Grandma and Grandpa tomorrow. He sounded good, but was definitely tired, so we said good night.

West meets East

Tim,
It was so great to see you yesterday at Spaulding. First of all it is a fabulous facility, right on the Charles, and secondly to see you navigate it and interact with the various people there was inspiring. In fact just seeing you was inspiring. Hearing you explain the high tech equipment (the Nimbus 2000 has nothing over the wheelchairs that you are testdriving), and also hearing you talk about the present and the future with such confidence and ease was incredibly uplifting. It is no wonder that you have such an immense fan club. Speaking of which, it was also nice to be able to spend some time with some of the headliners of your fan club. Bridgette in particular is such a lovely friend, as are Nadia and Maddie, and casts of others who I don't even know. It was fun to see you with them as we chowed down on Upper crust pizza (I highly reccomend the pesto) on the huge deck over looking the water and the Tobin bridge. You couldn't ask for a better address (and if you did it would be where your parents are staying).

Lou and I came away with such a positive, optimistic view of what and how you are doing. Thank you for sharing it with us. Can't wait to see you on Sunday!

Much love, Molly

PS. Sorry about hitting the joy stick and sending us careening down the hall.

Love from the Southwestern Cousins

Hey, Tim. Just wanted to give you a shout out and a little love from the blazing hot state of Arizona. We've been encouraged by your progress and are pulling for you everyday. You seem to be rocking your OT (we were especially fond of the post describing the progress and focus on your opposable left thumb :) We're also awed and humbled by the fantastic community of friends and family you have around you. Though we've only met a few times since you were old enough to even know what a second cousin was, we have to say it's pretty cool to get this window into your life. We have always been impressed by you and Jancy in the brief visits we've had with you (I think most recently at your aunt Carolann's wedding) and through reading your friends, family, and colleagues' encouragement, updates, joking, support, and general all around love (especially as they are in everyone's own words), it is clear that you have made quite an impression on the world already. One of our favorite posts was your dad's "One Month Ago." He ends it by saying that he and your Mom have learned a lot about you and are looking forward to learning more. We feel a bit the same though we have a lot more learning to do. Thanks to you and your family for opening yourselves up to us and others. It has been a real gift. Keep up the hard work - you are amazing.

Danny and Heather

Kickin' some tires

Just got off the phone with Tim. A busy day - again. Another day on the FES Bike. The results show that his muscles are strengthening and working more efficiently, but he cautions me that this does not mean that his legs are actually doing any work. It's more of a conditioning thing. Later, he took a group Cooking Class, where they made tacos. It was a "little discouraging, but it will come." I think he was referring to his technique, not the meal itself. He also had his first session with the Bioness for his hand. I didn't get too many details on that. The big event, though was a meeting with his Assistive Technologies Supplier, who began the work of choosing a mechanical wheelchair for Tim. As you might imagine, Tim had most of the specs for each option memorized and was evaluating the pros and cons. At this time, he has narrowed his selection to a Quantum http://www.quantumrehab.com/ or an InvaCare http://www.invacare.com/cgi-bin/imhqprd/inv_catalog/prod_cat.jsp?s=0&catOID=-536885238 Vrrroooom. Tomorrow he starts to think about a manual chair as well.

Pizza Party on the patio, courtesy of Lou and Molly and supplied by the Upper Crust. Guest list included Brigette, Nadia, Maddie, Charlie and Uncle John, who was able to see Tim styling in the Hawaiian shirt he gave him. No junk food for me tonight. Phoebe brought over a meal almost totally from her garden, and not a piece o' meat in sight. Loved it. The tastes of summer.

Mail Bag: I never mention the cards that come to our house, and I don't want to neglect that. Amy and I are so appreciative of the short simple notes that come addressed to us. They truly help to keep us going.

Good Lord, I'm out of shape!

This morning was focused on training for taking Tim home next weekend. For that, Amy and I participated in Tim's 2 hour PT session with Kevin. First, in the gym, we transferred Tim from a manual chair on to a bed, and then back to the chair. We did that twice. Tim was an offensive lineman. The lifting positions are awkward. Our first glimpse of life in a few months. Then we moved outside and did the same thing, but into and out of the car. This was trickier, as I had to fit into the small area where the open door attaches to the vehicle. I am not all that small, and that is a small space. But through both procedures, Amy and I worked together (with Tim letting us know if we were doing something that wasn't exactly right) and made it work out. After the second transfer, we took Tim on a little ride around the block. Then we worked on bumping Tim up steps in his chair. There's a real good chance that I'll feel that in the morning.

Later in the day, the O'Meara's came up from Bourne to spend some time with Tim before he headed off to his afternoon sessions - an hour of "arm work" where Tim lifted light weights (very light) to strengthen his upper arm muscles, and then an OT session in a "practice apartment" where he started to learn how to use adaptive techologies to do every day things like opening the fridge and drawers. I think I'd like the second work out better. As a matter of fact, that does sound like my work out - a few 12 oz. curls and then a look through the kitchen for a reward for all that hard work. At 3:00, we joined together in the first class of a three week edcuation program on spinal injuries. Then Tim had some stretching. The day was capped with a visit from cousin Melanie of West Hartford, her husband Bob and children Cameron and Sophie. Melanie hooked up Tim with decals, fuzzy dice, air freshener and other things necessary to pimp his ride. She'd also just purchased an iPhone, and Tim had mentioned how that technology might be a useful replacement to his cell phone. Now, he's had a chance to check it out first hand. Amy and I caught up with Dr. O'Connor who described the movement in Tim's middle finger, left hand as a "subtle, but significant improvement." He finds Tim to be an "exceptional young man," and enjoys working with him. Hey, it's his blog and I'm his dad.

Mail Bag: From home,. we brought a couple of IM's that I printed out from Amanda and Brooke, a prayer card from Pat on the Cape, some words of wisdom from one of the Yarmos at Camp (I'm sorry - I wrote this at home and can't remember!) and a big card from many staffers at The Red Lion Inn http://www.redlioninn.com/ (sorry, couldn't resist). The mail man was complaining about the weight of Tim's delivery today - nine cards, Dave & Marianne and family of Pittsfield, West Stockbridge Congregational Church UCC, O'Malley's, Tim's 4th grade teacher Kathleen, Lisa & Chris of Scarsdale and West Stockbridge, Aunt Merrilyn (again!), Tim's old music teacher Deborah, George & Shirley from LA, and second cousin (my cousin - I think that makes her a second cousin of Tim's) Joanne from Denver. Whew. He loves this part of the day. So do we.

Well, Jancy and I got on the road by 7, home at 9. Drove Tim's car over to Troys to have a few things attended to, and found John, John Victor and Anthony all hard at work, so I was able to get them caught up on all things Tim. On the walk home, ran into Brigette, who was off to a going away party for Jake. I know that Tim would have loved to have been been home for that one.

West Stockbridge - the village that never sleeps, the Big Zucchini.

Just a note of thanks

Hi Tim,

Just writing to let your folks know how much I appreciate their time updating the blog...I read the blog upon awaking every morning and before sleeping at night. It helps so much to "hear" how you are doing everyday...the TGIFridays "family" of your parents' cares so much for them and "their boy". It broke our hearts to hear the news of your injury and the blog helps us all to know that you, and therefore they, are in good hands. Your progress is remarkable and reading of the outpouring of love and support around you is a true reflection of the lives you Butterworth's have lived out there in the Bershires...good people get goodness back when it's needed. Keep up the good work...being a PT, I know just how hard you are working!!! Glad your outing to the MOS went well!
pattyo

Your ever-expanding fan club!

Hey Tim! Just wanted to drop a line. Not sure if you received our card yet, but we've been thinking about you a lot and have been keeping up with you via this VERY COOl blog. Though we haven't met you yet, we have a very clear idea of just how special a man you are. Your folks have spoken so proudly of you (of course) these past few years while we've come to know them, and my goodness YOU HAVE A LOT OF FANS! We are only in W.S. on the weekends, working on our house there that we're renovating, and during our short visits of late, your presence has really been felt all over town.

Also, we have a handful of family & friends who have spent some time with your folks and we've been keeping them up to speed on your progress too. So like most celebrity superstars, you have a fan base that goes well beyond the people you know personally!

We look forward to meeting you soon (maybe even this weekend when you come home for a bit, if we're in the area)! Until then, keep the faith and know that there's a tremendous amount of positive energy being sent your way by people you don't even know yet!

Oh and we'll be picking up our T.B. bracelets this weekend too, as we were unable to make the Zuch festival on Saturday (don't suppose they're selling T.B. collars for the Chewie & Otis)???

Love & Laughs,

Chris & Lisa Paul (and our canine "kids" Oatie & Chewie)

Best Part of My Day

Hi Tim!

I have to say that I have been keeping up with your every "move" on this blog and cannot even begin to describe how incredibly impressed I am with everything that you have accomplished, although I have to say, I am not surprised. You are an amazing person and such a hard worker and I know that with every passing month, you will be closer and closer to your goal. My favorite part of the day is the moment I open this blog and read all about your progress! There are no words to describe how proud I am to have had the chance to meet you and your family. Even though I am no longer at RLI being able to give your dad a hard time every day, please know that you all are always in my thoughts and I look forward to seeing you all soon!

Oh and I didnt have a chance to make it to the Zucchini Festival(stupid new job) but I made my mother go down and get me my I love Tim Butterworth bracelet. Keep up the amazing work!!!

Sounds of Science

We got off to an early start today. After reading a bit with Tim, early Berkshire risers Tyler and Matt showed up to spend some time alone with Tim. A little while later Phoebe and Chris arrived from West Stockbridge. We talked for awhile to give Tim some time with his buds down on the patio. When we went down to join them, Chris looked the view over and exclaimed - "that's a lot of concrete out there (looking a the Big Dig)."

We had a great time, sitting around and talking. Phoebe gave me an incredible back rub (yes I know that has nothing to do with Tim) and we got ready to take off on our adventure to The Museum of Science. You can see the museum from Spaulding, but you do need to use public sidewalks and streets to get there. Surprisingly, Tim led the way. During the visit, both Chris and Phoebe shared with us that Tim was very mature and realistic with his vision of his future. He is taking time to learn about and undestand his injury and his options. He has a positive attitude and is not looking back.

We enjoyed ourselves at the museum (passes courtesy of Jim and Patty - thanks), focusing mostly on the mechanical, mathematical, engineering oriented sections. Then we oohed and ahhed at the Dinosaurs movie in the Omni Imax theater. This was Tim's first actual challenge in the "real world" vs. the 9th floor and common areas of Spaulding, where everyone's on the same sheet of music. He handled it well, but at times got a few glimpses of folks not making way for him, little kids staring and poorly designed access. But, as usual he took it in, thought a bit about it and didn't waste a lot of time on it.

Then back to the hospital for some socializing with the Ryders of Milton who arrived in Boston by boat, and Uncle John and Noir. The weather was delicious, but soon we broke up - Amy and I back to the Hill, John and the Ryders back to their homes and Jancy and Tim back upstairs to watch Rescue Me and wait for cousin Lily to arrive and escort her back to her college apartment for a sleepover. It was a good first month, can't wait to see what happens in the second!

Audi Inspirations

Tim and I had some alone time this morning, and I asked him if he'd like to read the Audi book that Max had dropped off yesterday. Of course.

The book is a corporate piece, very nicely done, about 60 pages of text, photos and illustrations. As we started it, it seemed that we would walk through the various technological developments pioneered and implemented by the founder, August Horch and his company. But, it quickly turned out to be more - the philosophies of this man and this company are admirable, and I think they will be inspirational to Tim. I am more pleased than ever that Tim has decided to align himself and his aspirations with Audi. I'll be sharing some quotes with you from time to time. Here is how the book starts.

For the determined visionary, life is never a smooth road. How could it be for those rare souls willing to risk all to fulfill dreams most of us never imagine? August Horch was such a man. When he dreamed, he dreamed big. When he worked, he worked hard. And, when he raced, he raced hard. He did so to win.

One Month Ago

July 12, 2007 - 31 days ago. So much has happened since. I've been fond of saying that "ever since the actual accident, when everything went wrong, everything has been going right." We have been so blessed throughout this time in our lives - we have not run into one roadblock as far as getting care for Tim; the caregivers have been top-notch, compassionate, professional, concerned and connected to him, from the local police and emergency response to BMC emergency room to CCU to recovery to transport to Spaulding; we have had constant, enthusiastic support from our families, community and employers; Tim has felt the support through visits, card, gifts, emails, blog posts, prayers, thoughts, FaceBook posts and phone calls. Amy and I have learned a lot about our son and we're looking forward to learning more.

One More Saturday Night

Well, we are settling in at the apartment, listening to the sounds of the Beach Boys drift up from this evening's concert at the Hatch Shell. Saturdays are kind of frustrating as we all miss Tim a lot and we can only get about 3 - 4 hours with him before it's off to bed. But a good few hours it was. He was amazing tonight, laughing and joking with his sister, planning our big outings tomorrow and next weekend. He is ready to roll!

Part of the reason for his excellent mood may have been the visitors he had today. Max Steiner, his recruiter from UTI came by to visit and brought several gifts for Tim - an official service jacket, two hats, a black hoodie, two tees (including one Audi Technology logo'd), a service manual text book to get started with and a beautiful hardcover Audi History book that was sent up by the head of the Audi School in Phoenix. After that, the hardware Baldwins and Stefan Serkin showed what true friends they are by braving the off-Cape Saturday traffic to visit Tim on their way home from vacation. The note we found from Lisa, Stefan and Corey said it all:

He was truly pumped by the time we had arrived.

This trip was a little different for us - we took Tim's Audi as that is how he'd like to ride home next week, and we must practice. The car - a 1990 A8 still rides smoothly, so we didn't mind.

We briefly reviewed the mail, which included a nice postcard from Rev. Allison who was spending time in Hershey, PA. And then we unveiled IT, the special gift from Regina and the people of our community:

This huge poster/collage came along with an album of hand written notes from each person captured on film. Tim couldn't find the words beyond "awesome" to describe how he felt, but I think you can see it in his eyes.

So, it's off to bed - tomorrow will be a long day. Tyler and Matt are dropping by at 8AM on their way to Maine. We're planning to visit the Museum of Science for most of the afternoon. We heard the Zucchini Festival was a real success. In fact, I could've sworn I saw some fireworks going off over the Citgo Sign. Good night!

My First Zucchini Festival

Hey Tim,

Well I experienced my first Zucchini Festival and was amazed at how the small town pulled off such an event. I did glimpse your mom briefly, but was unable to get over to see her as I was busy making root beer floats for the church. We sold out at least twice and had to summon in more supplies to keep our little church booth going. I saw a lot of people with bracelets. I am continually amazed at how much a small town pulls together and supports one of their own and I am excited to be part of it now.

I am grateful for this blog and the ability to keep posted on your amazing progress and adventures around Boston. I will be out for a visit the week after next on vacation. I will be glad to have a visit to Boston, my old stomping ground, again. Everyone at church continues to pray hard for you and be behind you whatever you may need! I'll update people from church with information from the blog here, especially those older people who are afraid of computers! Have a great week and work hard. Maybe we'll see you on the 19th....

Shawn

Dog Days

Dear Tim:

Think we may have finally cracked the protocols to post you a message from up street at #5 Stockbridge Road… We’ve been eagerly keeping up with your progress and activities thru this Blog – very cool, and Sooooooooooooo wonderful that your family, friends and community can reach out to you this way! You are in all of our hearts and minds each and every day. Invariably, all conversations in town quickly come around to news about you and how you’re doing… and how much we all love you as a friend and neighbor. Keep up the effort and the hard work! Tim, your well-being has a grip on this town, so please use our collective positive willpower to boost your own, and keep believing in the dream and the prize… just like my Mets, and your Red Sox!

You might have heard we have been spending a little extra time with Sammy since you went away… she sure does miss you, and these surely are the ‘Dog Days’ of summer for her:

Bringing her for morning “jogs” (?) is fun, as is knowing some of her favorite places to stop along the way! We took a few pics from a recent outing… hope they bring you some enjoyment!

Stay strong

Love,

Mati, Tina, Eitan and Juri Kiin

From Everyone at UTI

Hey Tim,

I can't walk down a hallway without someone asking about your progress. Everyone at UTI sends their support and best wishes. You're a great young man and this blog is terrific because it offers a real sense for the remarkable progress that you have made. Keep working hard. I can't wait to see you in a just a few hours from now.

Max

Zucchini Festival

Well after many hours of preparing for tomorrow I am finally about to go to bed. However a few things I wanted to let people know. Tomorrow, well more like today is the Zucchini Festival and the “Tim Butterworth” table is going to look AMAZING! With the help of Nora, Nadia, Mom, Dad and even a little Dustin the signs are made, table is up, glasses washed, and bracelets ready to be sold.
First, the table will be across the street from the fireman dunking booth right in the heat of west Stockbridge! “I love Tim Butterworth” Rubber bracelets will be sold at the stand however also may be purchased at Village Variety, West Stockbridge Video, Baldwin Hardware, Liquor Store (sorry I can not remember the name) Village Oven, and Williams river store. (If you own one of the stores and it is not 7 in the morning than I have not asked you yet but I am sure I will be seeing you soon). Back to Tims table a 10 dollar raffle for 2 James Taylor tickets, and a nice yummy dinner is going on. And added tonight a silent auction of a charcoal portrait of Tim done by fellow class mate Nora Toole.
One more thing! Everyone must remember to write in the Zucchini Festival journal/book that I will be taking to Tim next week, and also have you photo taken with your “I love Tim Butterworth” bracelet for the photo album that I am going to make of everyone and give to Tim. (It would be nice to have whole families or groups of friends taken at once)
With all the amazing things, and different options offered I am excited to see everyone tomorrow at the Zucchini Fest! Good night

Hi Tim,

Can't wait to see you on the 19th. It should be quite an occasion. We just keep thinking of you and celebrating your accomplishments and we're all waiting to see you again.

I sent something with your family this week that may bring a piece of West Stockbridge to you. I hope it's not too big.

I'm glad you're still thinking of photography, you've got a good mind and eye for it. Keep up the hard work Tim, You are just blowing us all away with joy for all you've accomplished in such a short time. We love you, Regina

It is written

Communication today was via two phone calls - Amy spoke with Tim around lunchtime and I caught up with him this evening. He's finishing up the week in good form. 42 minutes on the Locomat left him sore and satisfied. Later in the day, Tim took his first spin in a manual chair, which is what we'll be bringing to West Stockbridge next week, if everything works out. However, I was most interested to hear that in OT, he practiced writing. The results weren't too good, but it's another step in the right direction.

When I caught up with Tim, he was hanging with cousin Lily who is back in Beantown. She's an artist studying at Mass College of Art and brought along some of her artwork, as well as some created by her boyfriend Byron. Tim has them hanging in his room already. He also had a visit from Jake - probably the last time they'll see each other for awhile, as he is heading off to college in Colorado on Wednesday. A nice fruit basket from the Luchi's rounded out the day - Tim's sharing it nicely with the staff.

Back here in West Stockbridge, Tyler returned the Audi, ready to go and we'll be driving it out to Boston to practice transfers from the chair to the car. Tim is pretty pumped for Monday morning. We'll keep you posted!

Meanwhile, we hope that everyone will flock to the Zucchini Festival and support all of the folks and businesses who make this such a great day. There's something for everyone. I know that we'll miss dancing to the great music of Bootleg on Center Street while the fireworks go off overhead.

To Tim: we just wanted to say hello. So glad to hear you are coming home for a bit. We will keep that date in mind. Good to hear of your progress. Any special goodies you want; you know a hundred people would be glad to get them for you, us included. Isn't amazing to find out how many people you never even thought about care about you. Love from Sarah, Mark, Timmy, Adrienne, & Ella Formel

A Picture Paints a Million Words

It will be great to see more photos of you. So glad you are teaching your dad how to do it. Your homecoming sounds amazing and I bet every person there will be wearing I LOVE TIM BUTTERWORTH bracelets!!! I am just about to write to Bridgette to place an order for our family and friends over here because WE LOVE TIM TOO!!! All love Aunt Carolann

I also have to add that they are 5 dollars each.

I love tim butterworth bracelets

Today I got in my shipment of 1000 “I love Tim Butterworth” fundraising rubber bracelets. I will be selling them around town in different stores, and also at the Zucchini Festival on Aug 11th. However I know that some people may want one or a few and do not live in the Berkshires. I am more than happy to ship to any place in the world who may want a “I love Tim Butterworth” bracelet. My E-mail is Redelbr@emmanuel.edu simply send my a message saying how many you would want, and with your address and I will write saying where to send the money. Well I hope to see everyone out supporting Tim.

Also they come in 4 different shades of blue!!!

-Brigitte

Digital Images

Tim served as co-Editor of the MMRHS Yearbook this year, and while he was at it, he developed a keen interest in photography. With his graduation gifts, he bought a professional grade camera and just started using it. Soon after he was hospitalized, he asked us to bring it in to the hospital and document what he has been going through. Tim has since taught me a little bit about how to use it (I am still a point and click, auto focus guy) and how to download the images on to my computer. In the meantime, I started fiddling around with adding images to this blog. A few of my first attempts are readily visible, but I will slowly be adding more over time, starting with some of the older posts. I may also do one post that is all images and tells a story from the beginning of this adventure to the present. The first post I added images to, is The Eagle has Landed, back in week one.

Quick Draw McGraw / Homeward Bound

After a lovely light dinner provided by Kathy K, I gave Tim a call on his cell around 8PM and he answered it quickly and easily. The ban is off, you can call Tim now - he'd love to hear familiar voices. Alas, even with me, he could only manage to hold it up for about 10 minutes, so please be aware of that if you do reach him. Any time of day is fine, he says.

As we were talking, I heard the siren from the drawbridge over the Charles. "Are you outside?" "Yup, I'm out on the Esplanade (actually the Nashua Street Park) with Trevor, a new guy on the floor, and his family." So, he's getting more comfortable moving about, and that fact leads me to this announcement. We are working with the doctors and therapists to prepare for a day trip home to the Berkshires. On Monday, we will learn how to move Tim between his chair and a car seat. Combined with our walk over to the Museum of Science, we hope to develop the skills and comfort level to bring Tim home for the day on Sunday August 19. Our plan is to set up a pot luck picnic / cook out in West Stockbridge and give Tim a chance to re-connect with friends, family and familiar sites. He remains in good spirits, but admits to being a little homesick, and this trip is his brain child and should provide the cure! So, try to keep your calendars open and we will fill you in on the details as we make 'em up!

Earlier today, I had a chance to get reports from Grandpa and Uncle John, so I confirmed some details with Tim this evening. First, his hand coordination is improving. My dad observed that he is eating with an adapted fork very smoothly and efficiently. Also got some more info on the use of the Ergys 2 Bike.
http://www.musclepower.com/product2.htm
http://www.musclepower.com/pdf/ergyscar.pdf
Apparently, the machine sends a shock to Tim's leg muscles and as they contract, they pedal the bike. While this is happening, the muscles are being measured to see how much of the contractions is being caused by the electro-shock and how much is being caused naturally. It is still to early to totally understand this, but it seems (according to Tim) that at first his contractions were 100% caused by shock, but at points, he got below 70%. He is going to clarify what this means with his doctor tomorrow, but he confirmed with me that it indicates improvement. He has also started talking about post-Spaulding plans, including designing and building a custom wheel chair with Tyler and the guys. He is also thinking a Honda Passport would be a good vehicle to modify for several reasons. That's gotta kill him - I wonder if Audi will come out with something similar in the next few months? He also met with his nurse advocate today, and no big news, which is good. My folks came back to the room when therapies were supposed to be over and found him asleep around 3:15. Uncle John discovered the same thing when he called in around 4:30 or so. A tiring day, I guess.

Mail call: Aunt Merrilyn dropped a note and prayer from Asheville and Tim received cards from Rev. Allison in Seneca Falls, the Races (fresh back in West Stockbridge after vacation) and classmate Katherine from WS. "Can you feel the love, Tim?" "Yes dad, yes I can."

David Sedaris

Timmy!
Glad to hear you got the David Sedaris CDs, he's hysterical, we all hope you like them!

You're making great progress, I'm really proud of you, seriously you're a real inspiration. Your picture looks great and your improvement is awesome!!

enjoy the CDs!

Love, Alex

PS. my mom says "no donuts coming until further notice"

Zucchini Fest

For Our Local Friends....Don't forget to go to the Zucchini Fest this Saturday, August 11 and visit Tim's table - ably manned by Bridgette Redel and friends - fun gifts and prizes!
sorry - no time to write more xxk

Walk this Way!

Aerosmith is in the back of my mind as I envision your mother and a team of therapists trying to keep up with you! I shall hold on to that happy image, as well as the one of you having a successful first time walking on the Locomat. Keep it up. All your hard work is really paying off!! Can you take a picture for the blog when you are at the Science Museum this weekend, with the camelback, of course? All our love from across the pond, Aunt Carolann

Hey Tim!!

Steve O'Malley and Mary D here... We apologize for not communicating for so long, we have just now figured this out (or I should say Kiernan figured it out for us) so we should be up and running.

We have been following your progress via Conor; he relays all to us, and he said he talked to you today. Things sound great, you are making great progress and we are very excited for you. We just read some of the posts here as we were negotiating(bulldogging you might say) thru the site and saw a post from Dr. Bob Crowell. He performed back surgery on Mary several years ago, and he is the best, a very good guy to have in your corner, and he sounds very encouraging.

You are working very hard, staying focused and positive and we are all very proud of you. We think about you every day, and just continue to visualize you up and about.

We will be heading to Boston within the next few weeks and will be by. Please let us know if there's something you want or need!!

Much love and light,

Mary, Steve, and Kiernan (we know Conor talked to you today) :)

Don't leave me hangin' on the telephone.

9PM - I just got off the phone with Tim. It was a quick conversation, but very significant. You see, I called him on his cell and he answered it. He is keeping it tucked in to a pocket of the new North Face "Camelbak" hydration system that Amy picked up for him today (more on that later). He was able to take the cell out of the pocket, slide it open to answer and then hold it up to his ear. Again, his arm got tired quickly, but it was great to hear him answer his own phone. PLEASE: don't call him yet, unless he requests a call from you. Thanks.

Fortunately, Amy had brought me up to date this evening, so I didn't have to catch up on too much. Today was the 1st day on the Locomat, and Tim said it was great to stand up. It took about 30 minutes to get set up, and then he "walked" for about 15 minutes. He described the feeling as "being able to feel his legs hurt, sort of and his feet were tingly." According to the therapist, that was good. His blood pressure was fine and on we go to the next steps - FES bike tomorrow and Locomat again on Friday. Just around the corner is Bioness H200, which will use the FES technology on his hands and arms. http://www.bioness.com/products/h200.htm

OT today was a field trip to Half Time Pizza on Causeway Street for lunch, with his three therapists and Amy. She said that they had a tough time keeping up with him on the walk over. After that, it was over to Mass General for a CT scan to be sent back to Dr. Kantrowitz at BMC.

So, the Camelbak - Tim wanted one of these to prepare for his trips off campus. With this device, he can keep plenty of water with him, and it will stay cold and be easily accessible. It will hang off the back of his chair.

Mail bag: a gift pack arrived from our friends Sheila and Dick from Avon, 3 David Saderis books on tapes from the Yarmos (Uncle John will enjoy sharing those with Tim, as will we!), and a nice note from West Stockbridge native Joanne Campbell of Lexington. The room remains colorful and cheery as new flowers arrived from Mrs. Young, new superintendent of schools in Lenox, and Shrewsbury relatives Roberta, Dick and Gladys.

Tim's spirits were lifted today by a visit from our neighbors Mark, Pat and Carolyn who took a late afternoon off from their north shore vacation to hop into town. Uncle John also stopped by a little later. He'd been shut out the past couple of nights due to "too much going on" at Spaulding, so was able to get caught up.

Amy ended her day with a ride home via Peter Pan, and I picked her up in Lee. Thanks to those good folks for providing us with some deeply discounted tickets. We enjoyed a nice home cooked and tasty meal from Jane in Lee (I also need to mention last night's dinner that was dropped off by Brian - homemade sausage for me and Portabello Gratin for vegetarian Jancy) which really did make a difference in settling down after long days for both of us. One last news item about Tim - his has decided to grow out his beard again, but shave his mustache. See you around town!

Stats!

Google is something, I'll tell you. They provide a free tracking tool for websites and I installed it on the blog the other day. Today, it kicked in. Here are the results for August 7:

118 Pageviews

83 Unique Views

00:07:41 Time on Page

69.51% Bounce Rate

66.10% % Exit

I still need to learn a bit more about a few of these stats, as there are some other interesting metrics. So, thanks for sticking with us!

Hi Tim -

We just got back from a roadtrip. Janie and your folks
introduced me to the blogworld - this is my first try.
Your progress is extremely encouraging! The movement
in your Lt thumb and Rt big toe says that signals from your
brain are getting down through some intact, minute nerves
coursing through the cervical spinal cord, and then on down
to the limbs.
When a bit of improvement occurs, it tells us that more
improvement may well be on the way. Little by little, that
gradual, building strength may be very significant.
The treatment you are receiving helps to maximize the
improvement. Your own good health, positive outlook, and
hard work are also very important factors in the quest for
recovery. Keep up the good work!
Mary & I have been in touch with your Aunt Carolann,
and she is also very pleased with your progress.

All best wishes for recovery,
Bob & Mary Crowell

"FES Bike"

I know you've all been chomping at the bit to know, and I hate having tasks, self-imposed or otherwise, hanging over me. So I did a Google search on the above referenced term and it returned about 1200 links. The number one link - http://www.neurologyreviews.com/nov02/nr_nov02_superman.html
- gave me the term "functional electrical stimulation." I haven't read the article yet, but it looks interesting and I'll look it over with lunch today.

Thumbs UP!

Got a call at work today from Tim! During his OT class, while checking different muscle groups, he was able to move his left thumb, which is something new and very important. It is, after all, the thumb that separates us from most of the other vertebrates. Tim wryly noted that he was happy that it was the left thumb, as he could focus on that and take advantage of the many scholarship offers that are available to Southpaws.

So that was cool. Today also included a round on the FES Bike (don't know yet what that means, but will find out next week) and Tim says that when the electrodes are activated he can see his muscles contract. Cool stuff. Why don't they do that when I'm there? Tomorrow is the Locomat, and he prepped some more today by standing vertical. He reports that his blood pressure is pretty good, so he sees no reason that it won't happen. He also worked on his arm strength today.

Visitors today included Grandma and Grandpa for an hour or so while in town for other reasons - they will be back on Thursday for their "official visit." Also stopping by was one of Tim's catering / dish dog pals, Ryan and his friend Chris - they were in town to visit a friend at UTI, where Tim will eventually study to become an Audi technician.

Mail of the Day: Tim's boss from Butternut - Judy - sent a vintage Butternut tee shirt that she had been saving for years - XX large, so easy on, easy off. I tell you, Tim is stylin' out there. He also got two nice letters - one from Mary, a tourism colleague of dad's and one from poet/teacher Liskin. Thanks to everyone for keeping Tim in your thoughts and actions.

Dinner was fun - apparently Tim's roommate has a friend with an ownership stake at the Upper Crust on Beacon Street, and pizza was delivered in. Tim still likes pizza!

It was a long day, and Amy and Tim somehow settled in to a quiet game of Scrabble, which Tim dominated. At first, he was able to place and move his tiles, but eventually tired out. It was an early evening, and Tim drifted off thinking of tomorrow, when he will go out to lunch - off campus with his therapists and mom. Big day!

Embarrassment of Riches

I sure hope that it has been obvious how blown away Amy and I have been with the generosity of Tim's community. That said, we'd like to request that you slow down a bit with gifts of some types. He has received many food items and Dunkin' Donuts cards (as I have suggested), but we now realize that he can't begin to eat everything he gets and the staff isn't all that interested in helping. Also, we're a little concerned with him eating too much without getting any real excercise. We hope that doesn't sound ungrateful. At this point, I think the most important thing that you can do for Tim is to send him a card or letter, maybe with some local news that you think would be of interest to him. The blog postings and emails to his account are also good, but we've noticed his eyes light up when he gets good ol' US Mail.

As always, we are immensely grateful. Tim was always a role player in sports, but now he's the quarterback and he knows he has a team behind him, helping him get to his goal. Thank you!

...You Put Your Right Toe in and Shake it All About...

You do the Hokey Kokey
and you turn yourself around.
That's what it's all about!
Hey!

Allott and Tony and I danced the Hokey Kokey just for you because we are thrilled to hear the news of your latest achievement. It takes a strong, pure mind to visualise such things for oneself You might not make it to every PT session but you've clearly been doing your homework!!! and we're so proud of you. A+ with Love from Aunt Carolann

Monday's Musings

Blog wise, this is a tough day, as I drive home later and need to create the post before I leave, and I don't always have the full day's events. So, I'm sitting in one of the sun rooms watching the rain come down. Tim is off with, and has been with since around noon, Brigette and Nora. Just enjoying their presence and conversation. Amy and I did fit in a few minutes to go through today's mail - including cards from Aunts Merrilyn and Donna from down in North Carolina, the hardware Baldwins, Aunt Gladys, Steve A. and Meghan B. Uncle Bob called in from Virginia. He also enjoyed a box of Maine taffy from Dee (to share with the staff) and an Eagle article on Dr. Brotman from BMC.

One neat story to tell: when Amy went back to his room shortly after the toe news, she found Tim very animated - laughing and joking with Maggie, one of his PT's and the subject was a picture in Regina's collage - specifically the photo of him skiing in his lifeguard uniform. It was great to hear that.

As we get settled in to bi-coastal living, we've been bringing some groceries and household products with us to Boston. They make the trip in some very stylish & cool shopping bags designed and given to us by Seth at BlueQ. We've never met, but they arrived at our house and are in use! We actually take the long walk to the apartment so that everyone on Beacon Hill can admire them! Thank you.

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So, I'm back home now. The day ended pleasantly enough. Tim was ready for his first take out order of General Tso's Chicken and the neighborhood Chineses restaurant is the only one in America that does not carry it! They offer some sort of nonsense called General Gau's Chicken which features ginger and misses the point entirely. Must be some sort of territorial thing. Tim settled for boneless ribs and Sesame Chicken and enjoyed it immensely.

Tim had another visitor, Emily, towards the end of the day and we learned that she will be attending UMASS Boston, which is good news. Tim's starting to make big plans to leave the property and is already talking about a field trip to the Berkshires, hopefully before the school year starts.

Just stopping in

Hello to the Butterworths,
It's good to hear that Timmy is getting better I think it's awesome he has movement in his feet. Im feeling like there will be alot more good things to come. But for now good luck and I hope everyone is doing alright.

~Jillian Culver
PS. Tell Tim i said not to worry about Card Pond, i got it on lockdown

RIGHT on!!

Amy headed down to Spaulding this morning while Jancy slept in and I got caught up on "stuff." When she got to Tim's room, he was behind his curtain, indicating that he was involved in some personal things with the nurses, so Tim asked her to come back in a bit, but not without mentioning that he had "something to tell" her. "What?!?" asked Amy. "Not now, just wait." Well, that was no easy task for Amy, believe you me.

Eventually, of course the curtain was drawn back, and Amy summoned.
"Are you ready?"
"Uh, yeah."
"Look at my right foot."
Picture goose bumps.
Picture the big toe, on his RIGHT foot, moving ever so slightly.
Well, you get the picture.

Great to hear your progress...

Hi Tim,

We got the link to your blog and wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you at Spaulding. It sounds as if you’re putting in a big effort with all the intensive therapy, and we’re glad to hear about greater movement. We wish you lots of strength and courage as you progress.

Tim and Andres

Fund Raising

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Hello from NYC

Hello Tim and Butterworth family ... finally got onto the blog, and we are completely inspired by your family and elated to hear about your progress. We have already told your mom and dad about some friends of ours -- their son had a severe brain trauma about ten years ago -- and they have always said to us and to others that they never put "limits" on their situation, and on what was possible for their son. P.s. -- their son, daniel, is considered a "miracle" case from even the doctors p.o.v. and he continues to improve and surprise people even now. Anyway, your wonderful family reminds us of that wonderful family.

Sending love, hope, and good jokes when we can think of some!

The Suh family (Ruth, Chan, Kaelin, and Tae/"T-bone")

Summertime, and the livin' is easy as a walk in the park

Where to start today? We brought several items to Tim from home today, one of them being the Eagle's profile of West Stockbridge. I hung it on the wall and Tim read it from beginning to end. He thought it interesting that the location of our humble burg was described as "nestled between Alford and Richmond," as if that would clarify it for anyone from more than 30 minutes away who might be trying to find us! Do you think that helps the folks in Hinsdale or Peru or Sandisfield figure out where West Stockbridge is?!? I've always considered Alford and Richmond to be suburbs of good ol' Queensborough, and we had a little chuckle over this not very important conversation.

Which brings me to Richmond, I suppose. I've been cheering on my town throughout this blog, and I need to remember that the community who has been supporting Tim and our family are from all over the place and some of the supporters who have been mentioned earlier are, in fact, from Richmond. Richmond people are great people, and Richmond has been tied to the hip with West Stockbridge for years with Little League, Community Health Association, St. Patrick's, MMRHS and more. Besides, West Stockbridge is Richmond's downtown - it's where they go for hardware, video, auto repair, packaged goods, a quart of milk and loaf of bread, fine dining, pub fare, pizza, happy pancake and quality used books. Not to mention coffee on the way to work! They have a whole lot more going on for them than donuts, believe me - two fine orchards and a winery, a beautiful pond, a great Ambulance Corp. (trust us on that), a lot of beautiful by-ways and, of course, the home of our Governor. Tim's supporters from this fine town include (but are not limited to) Chief Cheerleader Dr. Conor O'Malley, his folks Steve and Mary, the Yarmosky Family, Jordan Nejaime and her family, the Ringlers, the Serkins, the Massieros, and of course the Boxers and Baldwins. Most important, though is our Good Samaritan Andrea, without whom, who knows? Now, this doesn't get Mary off the hook. I will be happy to deliver your dozen donuts any Saturday, but that doesn't mean all 12 will arrive - I leave by 2:00!

Back to today. Other goodies we delivered included a French Postcard from Aunt Carolann in Provence. Ooh - par Avion! Remember when it was so exciting to get something "Air Mail?" Tim enjoyed hearing from her and challenged himself to read the caption en Francaise. A greeting card was wedged into our door last week, and turned out to be from the staff at Chesterfield Scout Reservation, where Tim spent many enjoyable summer weeks, and worked as a CIT. I'm guessing Matt D was behind that. Thanks for the unexpected! We noticed a balloon boquet that had arrived Friday, and learned that it was from the good folks at MACONY. Finally, a package from MASS MoCA had a nice note from Katherine and two CD's - one a special release from Vampire Weekend, which we listened to twice today. Tim thought it was cool and so did I. Tim recalled attending a concert at MoCA with several pals and that it is a great place for that. Amen, brother.

It was a beautiful day in this neighborhood today. The humdiddy dropped as did the temperature, while the breeze picked up a bit. So, most of the day was spent outdoors watching the draw bridge go up and down and the Duck Tours navigate the Charles. Dara, a colleague from the Berkshire tourism industry came by, while in town visiting family, with a nice note and some healthy snacks for Tim. We also had some guests in from the fabulous town of Holliston, where many ex-TGIFridays employees are known to have settled. Jim & Patty, Cathy & Vinnie all came in with some nourishing snacks, Red Sox gear, Seinfeld vids, and great stories of our times together over the years. Patty is a PT and Cathie is a RN, so they were very interested in hearing some of the technical things that Tim has been experiencing. We enjoyed our time together.

After Tim rested a bit we fed him dinner and he enjoyed most of the rest of the Rescue Me season with Jancy (mom and dad left them alone). We also had another nice visit with Uncle John and Noir and we took a walk! Tim left the property for the first time, making his way with us down the sidewalk through the Nashua Street Park. That was cool, and in fact, Tim will be preparing this week to take a serious trip off property - we hope to go to the Museum of Science next weekend. Hopefully the trip will be uneventful, but he must be prepared to get along for several hours with no staff to assist him. That's called "independence."

I downloaded a lot of images from Tim's camera and will try to get some posted soon. Good night, and continued thanks for the emails to us and to Tim, for the posts on the blog, the cards and letters, the phone calls and the visits.

B, A & J

Hey Tim,
I am so sorry it has taken me a while to get in touch with you, camp = zero free time, but know that I am thinking of you everyday. I was so happy to come home today and hear news of your many improvements, your strength is inspiring. Keep on keeping on, man, I know that someday soon I will see you walking with Darla (the shotput) on your arm. I am sending you positive energy and getting my campers/slaves -what? to do so as well... I hope you can feel it. Miss you a lot kid, I know I will see you soon.
love, alena

ps: let me know if you feel up to any gilmore girls marathons in the future - i have all seasons ready if you want them and don't even try to deny your obsession. jk. but not really.

p

Did someone say donuts???

Hello again Tim. I am crying tears of joy like crazy. The blog writers (especially the parents:)) are amazing. Your progress is wonderful and your spirit an inspiration.

I know West Stockbridge is noted for so many fantastic things, but I will say here in Richmond we applaud and enjoy those tiny (one or two bites at a time) Bartletts cider donuts, by the DOZEN. They will find their way to Spaulding at some point......Just have to figure it out.

The Yarmo girls continue to check in regularly and we are keeping them posted on your progress. -They all send their best-

Look for the donuts---and covet them---okay you can share.

Keep it up...Mary